We are presented with this idea of heroism daily: people who risk their lives for others, stood up for their beliefs in the face of adversity. These people are featured in newspapers, in famous quotes, in textbooks. We know them, they inspire us to greatness.
However, I have recently begun to ponder another form of heroism: people bravely living their everyday lives. Those of you who come to my office are facing all sorts of challenges: should I stay or leave this relationship, this job, this home? Should I go back to school? How do I stand up to an ex-husband or ex-wife who is threatening to take my children from me? How do I go to high school another day where I am ostracized and alone? If I stop self-harming or using alcohol, can I face my demons and my shame? I have lost a loved one and am so deeply in grief, how do I get my children to school every day? I have cancer, will I survive, how will I endure the pain of treatment? I don’t have enough money to pay my bills, what do I do? How do I get out of bed every day in this depression?
Every one of us, at moments in our lives must endure, rise, grow, and move through the things that frighten us to our utter core. And this is the crux of it all: You are a hero. Perhaps your everyday heroism is acknowledged by your children, spouse, parents, or support group. Perhaps it is not. Perhaps you bravely endure your struggle in isolation. Today, I honor your heroism. To chose to take another step. To accomplish what you need to accomplish to the best of your ability.
There’s a quote that has always resonated with me: “Be kind; everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle.” Today I challenge you to recognize your own bravery, and acknowledge yourself as an everyday hero. I also push you to recognize that struggle in those who cross your path.
Wishing you peace,
Christina
